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Monday, May 17, 2010
Rebecca Hagelin refers to Pure Fashion as a solution for teens being under attack by the media
Dear Brenda,
Today's teenagers are under attack. The media is using and abusing them like no other generation before them.
Our girls are portrayed as sassy sex kittens who must use their bodies to get ahead. Our boys are portrayed as either crude and cruel, or wimpy.
And, the media that targets our teen girls, specifically, is even worse.
From time-to-time, I leaf through the teenage girl magazines on the news stands that are read by the millions every year. The content never ceases to stun me. From reading the publications written for girls as young as 12, you would think it is a requirement of every girl to sleep around or experiment with lesbianism.
Sound shocking? Go through a handful of the magazines the next time you have a little extra time in the airport, and you'll suddenly realize the tremendous pressure that marketers are placing on our young women to become sexually active.
This month's Seventeen Magazine is one of the worst perpetrators because they are insidiously evil in how they promote teen sex while pretending to be an advocate for our girls. I explain how in the Culture Challenge of the Week:
Culture Challenge of the Week: Seventeen Magazine, et al
If you dare to look behind the gloss, glam and glitz, it's enough to make you sick. Sick about how our pre-teen and teen girls are being used and manipulated by the fake "friends" that write and publish teen media.
One of the worst of these offenders is Seventeen Magazine. And, the May issue is probably the sickest of them all, complete with an extra dose of duplicity and hypocrisy.
The cover of Seventeen features the "star" of one of the most popular trash television programs for teenagers today -- "The Secret Life of the American Teenager" -- a program filled with teen sex.
They do this, of course, so teen girls will slap down some serious cash to find out why starlet Shailene Woodley isn't "the girl you think she is." (I'm not sure what teen girls "think she is," but the article gushes about how the 18-year-old "Shai" and her boyfriend packed their bags and moved to NY where they shacked up.)
And, get this: Another feature article in the same edition discusses how television shows like "The Secret Life of the American Teenager" can "trick" girls into "getting pregnant."
Of course, while pretending to criticize such programs, the magazine also heavily promotes those same shows in their publication throughout the year. It also portrays "hooking up" as normal behavior for teens, runs ads telling girls how to get guys to touch their legs, and frequently promotes hot sex and lesbianism.
On the surface, it might look like Seventeen and one of their major partners, The Candie's Foundation, are truly concerned about the physical and emotional well-being of our young women. Afterall, they are engaged in a campaign to help reduce teen pregnancy.
How can that be bad?
Because they are hypocrites. Because while they brag about spending so much money to come up with "cool" ads aimed at reducing teen pregnancy, they are simultaneously part of the media culture that is constantly encouraging our young girls to have sex. To give the appearance of looking responsible, they "attack" other media outlets for doing exactly what they do every month: brainwash our young women into believing they have to be sex kittens.
Our girls deserve better.
How to Save Your Daughter from Being Used
It's time that parents watch and read what their girls are consuming.
Watch the trashy shows like "Gossip Girls," "The Secret Life of the American Teenager," and "Glee." Pick up a copy of the sleazy Seventeen, Glamour and Cosmopolitan.
Do it one time and you will suddenly realize that today's teenage girls are being treated like red meat, and encouraged to serve it up as a part of normal teen life.
Our young women, thanks to adults who have skillfully learned how to manipulate their emotions, hormones, insecurities and hopes, are being degraded and devalued more than any generation of American girls before them.
The message that is being drilled into their psyches is painfully obvious: Forget about your intelligence, your goodness, your kindness, your grace or your moral integrity -- the way to get ahead in the world is by using your sexual power.
Start deconstructing the shows and the messages with your daughter. Let her know that she is being used and manipulated into buying the magazines, the sponsor products, the Candie's shoes, etc. Show her how her natural teen interest in sexuality and boys is being skillfully twisted and manipulated by adults who are masters in marketing their wares to her age group.
And, of course, find something else fun for your daughter to do with all of that time she is wasting.
Above all else, let her know how much you love her, and that she is a person of high value. Introduce her to movements like www.PureFashion.org who understand how fashion and morality can work together. If she's college bound, encourage her to become involved in groups like the Network of Enlightened Women, who expose the rabid media culture and radical feminism for what they are: damaging and degrading to women.
Your daughter does deserve better. Help make sure she knows it.
Our girls are portrayed as sassy sex kittens who must use their bodies to get ahead. Our boys are portrayed as either crude and cruel, or wimpy.
And, the media that targets our teen girls, specifically, is even worse.
From time-to-time, I leaf through the teenage girl magazines on the news stands that are read by the millions every year. The content never ceases to stun me. From reading the publications written for girls as young as 12, you would think it is a requirement of every girl to sleep around or experiment with lesbianism.
Sound shocking? Go through a handful of the magazines the next time you have a little extra time in the airport, and you'll suddenly realize the tremendous pressure that marketers are placing on our young women to become sexually active.
This month's Seventeen Magazine is one of the worst perpetrators because they are insidiously evil in how they promote teen sex while pretending to be an advocate for our girls. I explain how in the Culture Challenge of the Week:
Culture Challenge of the Week: Seventeen Magazine, et al
If you dare to look behind the gloss, glam and glitz, it's enough to make you sick. Sick about how our pre-teen and teen girls are being used and manipulated by the fake "friends" that write and publish teen media.
One of the worst of these offenders is Seventeen Magazine. And, the May issue is probably the sickest of them all, complete with an extra dose of duplicity and hypocrisy.
The cover of Seventeen features the "star" of one of the most popular trash television programs for teenagers today -- "The Secret Life of the American Teenager" -- a program filled with teen sex.
They do this, of course, so teen girls will slap down some serious cash to find out why starlet Shailene Woodley isn't "the girl you think she is." (I'm not sure what teen girls "think she is," but the article gushes about how the 18-year-old "Shai" and her boyfriend packed their bags and moved to NY where they shacked up.)
And, get this: Another feature article in the same edition discusses how television shows like "The Secret Life of the American Teenager" can "trick" girls into "getting pregnant."
Of course, while pretending to criticize such programs, the magazine also heavily promotes those same shows in their publication throughout the year. It also portrays "hooking up" as normal behavior for teens, runs ads telling girls how to get guys to touch their legs, and frequently promotes hot sex and lesbianism.
On the surface, it might look like Seventeen and one of their major partners, The Candie's Foundation, are truly concerned about the physical and emotional well-being of our young women. Afterall, they are engaged in a campaign to help reduce teen pregnancy.
How can that be bad?
Because they are hypocrites. Because while they brag about spending so much money to come up with "cool" ads aimed at reducing teen pregnancy, they are simultaneously part of the media culture that is constantly encouraging our young girls to have sex. To give the appearance of looking responsible, they "attack" other media outlets for doing exactly what they do every month: brainwash our young women into believing they have to be sex kittens.
Our girls deserve better.
How to Save Your Daughter from Being Used
It's time that parents watch and read what their girls are consuming.
Watch the trashy shows like "Gossip Girls," "The Secret Life of the American Teenager," and "Glee." Pick up a copy of the sleazy Seventeen, Glamour and Cosmopolitan.
Do it one time and you will suddenly realize that today's teenage girls are being treated like red meat, and encouraged to serve it up as a part of normal teen life.
Our young women, thanks to adults who have skillfully learned how to manipulate their emotions, hormones, insecurities and hopes, are being degraded and devalued more than any generation of American girls before them.
The message that is being drilled into their psyches is painfully obvious: Forget about your intelligence, your goodness, your kindness, your grace or your moral integrity -- the way to get ahead in the world is by using your sexual power.
Start deconstructing the shows and the messages with your daughter. Let her know that she is being used and manipulated into buying the magazines, the sponsor products, the Candie's shoes, etc. Show her how her natural teen interest in sexuality and boys is being skillfully twisted and manipulated by adults who are masters in marketing their wares to her age group.
And, of course, find something else fun for your daughter to do with all of that time she is wasting.
Above all else, let her know how much you love her, and that she is a person of high value. Introduce her to movements like www.PureFashion.org who understand how fashion and morality can work together. If she's college bound, encourage her to become involved in groups like the Network of Enlightened Women, who expose the rabid media culture and radical feminism for what they are: damaging and degrading to women.
Your daughter does deserve better. Help make sure she knows it.
I sincerely hope and pray that the moms reading this had a blessed Mother's Day weekend! As we prepare for Father's Day, which is coming up in late June, I would love to hear from the dad's about the greatest challenges you face in raising children in today's culture, as well as your success stories for overcoming them.
I'll compile the most common issues shared, and develop my Culture Challenge of the Week around your stories. Please send any thoughts/challenges/or success stories you have about fathering to rebecca@HowToSaveYourFamily.com. All identities will be protected. No names will be used.
Have a wonderful week with your family!
Warmly,
Rebecca
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Thursday, April 15, 2010
Girl Scouts teaching girls how to be Healthy, Happy and Hot!
I read this article this morning, and I am speechless....
By Kathleen Farah
© 2010 WorldNetDaily
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A new campaign by the Girl Scouts, with the help of Planned Parenthood, is offering girls ages 10 to 14 the inside details on how to be "hot."
This week, (march 16, 2010) the World Association of Girl Guides and Girl Scouts held a no-adults-welcome panel at the United Nations in which Planned Parenthood distributed a brochure entitled "Healthy, Happy and Hot."
The distribution happened at the annual United Nations Commission on the Status of Women, which featured events for the "Girl Scouts and Girl Guides." In the United States, the organization is called Girl Scouts of the USA and promotes the traditional promise of "On my honor, I will try to serve God and my country, to help people at all times, and to live by the Girl Scout Law."
The organization, however, effectively has eliminated "God" from the equation by providing that, "The word 'God' can be interpreted in a number of ways, depending on one's spiritual beliefs. When reciting the Girl Scout Promise, it is acceptable to replace the word 'God' with whatever word your spiritual beliefs dictate."
The brochure targets young people and contains graphic details on sex. It also encourages casual sex in many forms.
"Many people think sex is just about vaginal or anal intercourse. ... But, there are lots of different ways to have sex and lots of different types of sex. There is no right or wrong way to have sex. Just have fun, explore and be yourself!"
It then makes some specific suggestions to "talk dirty."
"Improve your sex life by getting to know your own body. Play with yourself! Masturbation is a great way to find out more about your body and what you find sexually stimulating. Mix things up by using different kinds of touch from very soft to hard. Talk about or act out your fantasies. Talk dirty to them," it suggests.
The international organization boasts it reaches 10 million girls in 145 countries. And not only does it provide suggestions for promiscuous sex, it also defines as acceptable sex while high or drunk.
"Some people have sex when they have been drinking alcohol or using drugs. This is your choice. Being drunk or high can affect the decisions you might make about sex or safer sex," the brochure states.
So what to do?
"Plan ahead by bringing condoms and lube or putting them close to where you usually have sex."
The brochure also tells students that laws requiring HIV-positive people to disclose their status to a partner "violate the rights of people living with HIV" and calls for advocacy to "change laws that violate your rights."
The brochure explains to the young girls, "There are many reasons that people do not share their HIV status. … They may worry that people will find out something else they have kept secret, like they are using injecting drugs, having sex outside of a marriage or having sex with people of the same gender."
The Girl Scouts also have worked in partnership with the YMCA on moderating a young women's caucus that included an "Intergenerational Conversation" side event on "universal access" and "reproductive health." One recent Girl Scout project "aims at securing the right of women, men and adolescents aged between ten and twenty-five, to better reproductive and sexual health."
The commission finished with a "Joint Statement" from agencies ranging from the Population Fund and the United Nations Educational, Scientific and Cultural Organization to the Children's Fund that called for support for programs "that empower … adolescent girls, particularly those aged 10 to 14 years."
The New York Times reported that the U.N. Population Fund had co-sponsored a controversial curriculum with UNESCO that taught children as young as five to be sexually active and trained adolescents to advocate for abortion.
Wendy Wright, president of Concerned Women of America, told the Friday Fax, "Governments and NGOs should be aware of Planned Parenthood's insidious plan to work with U.N. agencies and girls' organizations in order to profit from encouraging kids to be sexually active."
Thursday, February 11, 2010
I've been reading Rebecca Hagelin's new book,
"30 Ways in 30 Days to Save Your Family",
and I highly recommend it!
Check out her website at:
http://www.howtosaveyourfamily.com/
I had the honor of meeting her when I emceed the
"Choices Atlanta Woman of the Year Luncheon" back in November.
Rebecca was the keynote speaker and was fantastic!
She is full of warmth, wisdom and wit, and had the audience hanging on every word!
Keep her in mind if you need a speaker for a women's conference!
Check out her website at:
http://www.howtosaveyourfamily.com/
I had the honor of meeting her when I emceed the
"Choices Atlanta Woman of the Year Luncheon" back in November.
Rebecca was the keynote speaker and was fantastic!
She is full of warmth, wisdom and wit, and had the audience hanging on every word!
Keep her in mind if you need a speaker for a women's conference!
Wednesday, February 10, 2010
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